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Please help me...past is creeping up on me...?

i26039;m going to make this as short as possible..and easy to understand. I met a guy the end of last year. I thought we got along pretty well. I felt really comfortable with him. I don26039;t usually feel comfortable with anyone. He treated me different then everyone i26039;ve ever met. I26039;m 20 but I26039;m not the usual 20 year old college kid. I dropped out..and I only seem to hit it off with older people. That26039;s pretty much why I had no friends in school...ever. We were listening to his ipod. We both loved the artist. Immediatly he could pick out my fave songs on any of their albums. Long story short...we got along well. He even gave me a kiss on the cheek when we left. I was NOT expecting that. I guess I figured why even try to be friends with people anymore because I only seem to get crushed. I don26039;t know what I did but he seemed to like me. But Idk if it was b/c he26039;s naturally nice? I e-mailed him...he wants to see me again. seemed really excited. no1 gets excited to see me. how do i go about this?

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im talking about just being friends...

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im a nice person and seem to have what it takes to be a good friend...so why do i have only one? most of the people who arn26039;t friends with me anymore...im kinda glad...but ya know...

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one last thing...im so used to people not liking me...and me trying and trying and never winning...well except once lol...but can this be real...or is he just nice? i don26039;t wanna **** this one up...he26039;s different and really cool. how can i make this work? again just friends ya know. my past is coming and haunting me. im so scared and mentally used to being rejected. i can26039;t even get my mind on the fact someone likes me. i never ever think of them even thinking of me other then when im in eyevision.p分页标题e

It sounds like you have low self-esteem issues. You find it hard to make friends because you don26039;t know why anybody would be interested in you.

It also sounds like you may be very mature for your age - that26039;s usually why people make more friends with people older than them.

Perhaps this guy is the same as you - more mature than other people your age. He might find your maturity very attractive.

The fact that he can pick your favourite music says a lot to me, because music tells us a lot about a person. So I would say that he likes what he sees when he looks into your soul.

I would suggest that you should not over-analyze this - it could be just what it looks like. He apparently has a lot in common with you and he wants to be friends. So be friends with him.

And the most important thing about friendship is to be honest with him. It might be a good idea to let him know what you put in your question - you feel comfortable with him, you like him and you26039;re interested in seeing if you two share any other interests.

Keep in mind that he might be in the same boat as you are - perhaps he26039;s not made many friends in his own age group and he26039;s excited at finally finding someone his own age that he can relate to.

Then see where it leads.

But understand this if you understand nothing else - there IS something about you that this guy finds very interesting. He can see it, even if you don26039;t. Generally, we often exaggerate the negatives and ignore the positives about ourselves. It sounds like you26039;re doing this.

That26039;s not a real picture. The real you, the one that he sees, is better than you think it is.
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At some point, you26039;ll find out how he sees you. Believe it, and accept that you do have something of value to bring to this friendship.

Good luck.

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